ghar mein virodh ho to kaise karen bhajan?

“jab mera parivaar hi meri bhakti ka virodh kar raha ho, to main kya karu? Kya mujhe ghar chhod dena chahiye?” maharaj ji is sthiti ko ‘badha’ nahi, balki ek ‘Shurvirr’ banne ka avsar mante hain.

1. Virodh ‘negative’ nahi, prabhu ki vishesh ‘kripa’ hai

apne parivaar ko ‘Bhagwad-virodhi’ kahna band karen. Unhen is prakaar dekhna hi aapki sadhna ki ‘pahli asflata’ hai. Ghar mein hone wala virodh vastav mein bhagwan ki aap par vishesh kripa hai. Bhagwan aapko kahin aur phasne nahi dena chahte, isliye ve aapki kadi pariksha le rahe hain. Jo marg prarambh mein pratikultaa deta hai, wah ant mein ‘amrit’ ke saman anand pradan karta hai. Ise prabhu ki ‘negative’ gatividhi nahi, balki apni unnati ka ‘positive’ sanket manen.

2. Bhajan hriday ka vishay hai—kya prem ko shringar ki zarurat hai?

sadhako ko aksar lagta hai ki tilak, mala aur kanthi ke bina bhajan nahi ho sakta, aur isi baat par ghar mein klesh badhta hai. “pyar ke liye kya kisi shringar ki zarurat hoti hai?” yadi aap kisi ke adhin hain aur bahari prateekon (mala, tilak) se virodh badhta hai, to unhen turant tyag den. Bhajan ka asli swaroop ‘hriday’ se prabhu ko pukarna hai. ‘Radha-Radha’ ka mansik jap koi nahi rok sakta. Prabhu to aapke hriday mein baithe hain. Ve aapke bahari dikhave ke nahi, aapke antarik prem ke bhukhe hain.

3. Palayan kayarta hai, ‘ghav’ dekhkar yodha ka josh badhna chahiye

ghar chhodkar bhagne ka vichar kayarta hai. Bhakti ka marg ‘sinhon ka marg’ hai. Rani Ratanavati ne har mankar ghar chhorne ke bajay, mahal ke theek samne baithkar apni adig sadhna se raja Madhav sinh ko charnon mein jhukne par majbur kar diya tha. “jaise ek Shurvirr yodha jab ranbhumi mein utarta hai aur use ghav lagte hain, to wah khun dekhkar aur josh se bhar jaata hai, waise hi ek sacha sadhak virodh ki mar khakar aur adhik teevrata se naam-jap mein lag jaata hai. ”

• kayar: pratikultaa dekhte hi bhag khada hota hai.
• yodha: dusron ke kathor shabd sunkar muskurata hai aur bhajan ki gati badha deta hai.
• drishtikon: virodh ko apni sadhna ka indhan (Fuel) bana len.

4. Virodh karne walon ki ‘kripa’ maniye

sansaar ka ‘anukul’ vihaar aur sabka prem aapko ‘jhuthe moh’ ke jal mein fansa sakta hai. Lekin jab gharwale virodh karte hain, to ve anjane mein aapko sansaar se virakta kar rahe hote hain. Jo aapko gali de rahe hain ya mar rahe hain, unke prati krtjnta (Gratitude) ka bhav rakhen. Unki kripa maniye ki ve aapko us jhuthe pyar se bacha rahe hain jo anttat dukh hi deta. Unhen pranam karen aur unke bhitar baithe prabhu ka darshan karen. Pratikultaa hi wah chhaini hai jo aapko tarash kar prabhu ke nikat le jaegi.

5. Maun sadhna: jiske liye chal rahe ho, wah sab sun raha hai

aksar sadhak apne ghar ke virodh ki shikayat dusron se karte hain. Yah sadhna ki kamzori hai. Apni pida ya apni sadhna ki charcha kisi tisre vyakti se na karen. Yah shikayat karna is baat ka praman hai ki aapko prabhu ki sarwavyapakta par bharosa nahi hai. Vishwas rakhen ki “wah jiske liye aap chal rahe hain, wah sab dekh raha hai aur sun raha hai. ” jis din bhagwan ki kripa ka samay aayega, wahi virodhi vyakti aapke charnon mein hoga. Tab tak maun rahkar apni shakti ka sanchay karen.

nishkarsh aur chintan

bhakti palayan nahi, balki purn samarpan aur sahas ka naam hai. Virodh ko shatrutha nahi, balki prabhu ka ‘gupt prem’ aur apni pariksha mankar sweekar karen. Yadi aap apni sadhna mein adig rahe, to ek din prabhu ki aisi kripa hogi ki paristhitiyan apne aap badal jaengi.

mul lekh: bhajanmarg.com