parivaar mein lagataar kalah-klesh se pareshaan hoon. Kya karu?

parivaar mein nakaratmakta aur ghar mein kalah jaisi cheezen har ghar mein hoti hain. Yah keval aapke saath hi nahi ho raha hai. Yah ek samannya samasya hai. Jab tak shastron ka swadhyay, accha aacharan, bhagwan ke naam ka jap aur dusron ke prati sammaan nahi hoga, tab tak har ghar mein kalah bani rahegi. Mata-pita ka sammaan kiya jana chahiye, lekin unka anadar kiya ja raha hai. Kuch mata-pita bhi bachchon ki bhavanon ka aadar nahi karte. Kuch pita to aise bhi hain jo apne bachchon ke palan-poshan ke bajay unka shoshan karte hain. Aaj har ghar dharm-virodhi aacharan ke karan barbad ho raha hai. Aisa ghar milna durlabh hai jismen pati-patni ke beech prem ho, pita-putr ke beech prem ho, bhai-bhai ke beech prem ho. Sab jagah keval ashanti hi ashanti hai.

parivaar mein kalah kyon hoti hai?

jaha hamare sukh mein badha aati hai, wahin kalah hoti hai. Hamen swayam ko shant karna sikhna chahiye. Yadi ham dusron ko shant karne ka prayas karenge to isse krodh badhega aur kalah aur bhi badhegi. Yadi ham swayam ko shant karna seekh len to kalah se bach sakte hain. Ham kalah ko dur nahi kar pate kyonki hamari buddhi ashudh hoti ja rahi hai. Hamare yuva jin galat acharno mein uljh rahe hain, unke karan ve adarsh grihasth nahi ban paenge. Hamari vritti hamen anjane mein galat acharno ki aadat dal rahi hai. Aaj ek premi banaya, phir kuch din baad breakup kiya aur phir kisi aur ke saath chal diye. Jab ham in prabal pravrittiyon ke saath grihasth jeevan mein pravesh karte hain, to yah hamen shanti se nahi rahne detin. Kya aisa ghar kalah se bhara hoga ya shantipurna hoga? Wah ghar keval asantosh se bhara hoga.

man mein kalah

hamari mangen aur ichchhaen badh gayi hain, aur hamara prem ek jagah kendrit nahi hai; isliye, ashanti hona nischit hai. In sab se keval wahi log bach pate hain jo dharm ka palan karte hain. Aise log roz naam japte hain, santo ka satsang sunte hain, aur shastron ka swadhyay karte hain. Hamare bahar hi nahi, balki hamare man mein bhi kalah machi hui hai. Hamara man hamen sukho ki or khinch raha hai. Aap swayam jaanch karen ki kya aapka man shant hai?

kalah se mukt hone ka arth hai ki vicharon mein takrav na hona, koi ichchha na hona, santusht aur aandit mehsus karna. Lekin yah na to hamare sharir ke bhitar hai aur na hi bahar. Yah tabhi ho sakta hai jab ham dharm ka palan karen, bhagwan ki sharan len, naam jap karen aur sahi acharno se chale. Yadi hamara sharir ashudh rahega, to hamari indriyan aur man ashudh rahenge. Yadi hamari indriyan aur man ashudh rahenge, to hamare vichar apvitra rahenge. Ab jab vichar gande honge, man ganda hoga, indriyan gandi hongi aur sharir ashudh hoga, to hamen shanti aur sukh kaise milega? Tab hamara swabhav chidchida aur katu ho jaega.

apna jeevan sudharen aur bachchon ko sahi shiksha den

hamare hriday jal rahe hain. Radha Radha japen aur apne bachchon ko bhi aisa karne ke liye prerit karen. Unhen achhche aacharan karne ki shiksha bhi den. Isse ve bhavishya mein achhche grihasth baenge. Anytha, sahi shiksha se vanchit bachchhe ahankaar mein phans jaate hain. Jab mata-pita apne bachchon ko bhajan karna nahi sikhate, to ve shastron ke niyamon ka palan nahi karte, jisse unmein irshya aur bechaini jaise avgun aa jaate hain. Unke jeevan mein avyvastha paida ho jati hai. Jeevan ko vyvasthit rup se jine ke liye naam jap, shastron ka swadhyay aur satsang zaruri hai.

sabhi ke hriday mein prabhu virajman hai. Unki puja karna bhi utna hi avashyak hai. Sabmen apne prabhu ko dekhte hue sabki seva karen. Lekin yah mushkil hai kyonki aajkal gande aacharan badh gaye hain. Chhote bachchhe nashe mein dhutta rahte hain, unka man age chalkar unhen sahi nirnay kaise lene dega? Tyauharon ke samay, bachchhe sadak par sharab ke nashe mein ghumte rahte hain. Kya yah tyohar manane ki sahi vidhi hai? Tyohar ka matlab hota hai ki log ek saath baithkar naam jap karen aur bhagwan ko arpit prasad khain. Isse buddhi aur jeevan shuddh hota hai. Aajkal raaksasi vihaar badhta ja raha hai. Sharab pina, sadkon par atank machana aur badatmeeji karna ab aam baat hai. Yah sab hamare samaj ko galat disha mein le ja raha hai.

margdarshak: shri hit Premanand Govind sharan ji maharaj

shri hit Premanand ji maharaj parivaar mein kalah se nipatne par margdarshan karte hue

sambandhi video: YouTube

mul lekh: bhajanmarg.com