This matter should reach every husband and wife
A brief discourse of Pujya Maharaj Ji — to listen to the complete version, see the video above.
Complete Discourse
That my husband and my feelings are so interconnected that when I am happy, he becomes happy. If I am troubled, his state of mind also becomes very restless. Yes, first of all we thank both of you. Hearing your words, my heart cooled. At least there is this, is there not — that when we have accepted worldly life, our household is adorned, is it not? It is not desolate. That is a desolate household — the husband looking toward someone else, the wife looking toward someone else. The husband has doubt about his own life, the wife has doubt in her own life.
If such is a household, then it is greatly deplorable. Thank you. First of all, thank you for this love toward your husband, and thank you to that husband who loves you. This is how it should be. This is what we wish for. This is why we consider the principle of girlfriend-boyfriend relationships to be deplorable. Because when our habit becomes meeting with four men, meeting with four women, then our household dharma will be destroyed. We will not be able to live in husband-wife love. Our nature will become corrupted. You are promoting the tendency toward infidelity — and will this tendency allow you to remain steadfast in one? If it does not allow you to remain steadfast, then your household dharma will be destroyed. Your household will fall apart.
Look at how beautiful household dharma is, what beautiful words have been spoken. If I smile, my husband smiles. He becomes joyful. This is how it should be. He is coming from duty and you meet him with a smile. All his tiredness is gone. It is because of your smile that he comes from duty. If you engage in deception, in worldly wrong conduct, that heart is burning. What kind of householder is one whose family is not within him, not in his love? First of all we thank you. May you remain so happy and sing bhajans abundantly. The wife should love the husband, the husband should love the wife, worship God. This is our household dharma.
This text is taken from auto-generated captions of the video — there may be errors in the words. To hear the authentic discourse, please listen to the video.
Original video: Bhajan Marg (YouTube)
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