dahej pratha (Dowry System) par kya bole maharaj ji !!

shri hit Radha keli kunj, Vrindavan mein pujya shri hit Premanand Govind sharan ji maharaj ke saath ekantik vartalaap. Sadhak apne jeevan aur sadhna ke prashn rakhte hain aur maharaj ji unka samadhan karte hain.

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amit bhati ji Radhavallabh shri Harivansh maharaj ji aapke charnon mein koti-koti naman maharaj ji ki kripa se aap se pehle bhi ek prashn pooch chuka hoon ki agar koi maa bahan ke saath hinsa kar raha ho to hamen kya karna chahiye Gurudev aapke iska jawab bahut hi sundar diya asha hai usse log kafi prerit hue honge Gurudev aapko aaj ke samay mein lakho log sun rahe hain aur aapki vani par log kafi amal bhi kar rahe hain aaj ke samaj mein aapne Radha naam ki ek nai urja pradhan ki hai Gurudev ki film prarthna karte hain sound mein koi samarth nahi hoti baat mashin ki hoti hai mashin hata do to sound kuch nahi bol payega yah sound hai ismen power urja Gurudev ke samne jab Akbar samrat ne taj utar ke rakha to aansu ae gaye baad mein unke nyooz janon ne pucha ki prabhu badshah ne pranam kiya taj rakh diya isliye aansu aae nahi isliye aae ki jab Ram ka nahi tha to mangne se roti bhi nahi milti thi aaj Ram ne sweekar kar liya to badshah bhi taj utar ke rakhna hai unki swikrati se hai apne

logon ka kya hai pura jeevan bhikshuk jeevan bhala hamari samarth kya ki ham Radha naam ki mahima prakashit kar sake hamare samarth ham kisi ke antaran ka parivartan bes ki karen karave aap sab aur jan bada hi the ji maharaj ji asha hai ki aaj ke prashn se bhi kafi log kuch seekhenge Gurudev ji aap ne apni jaan se bhi pyari beti di ho ji bhai ne apni hamjoli bahan di ho ek bahan ne apni parchhai de di ho ek maa ne jo duniya sab kuch de shakti hai bat apne santan usman ne apni beti di ho Gurudev phir bhi log aajkal ki shadiyon mein kafi dahej mangte hain aur agar maa mutabik dahej nahi mile to ladki ke saath hinsa tak kar dete hain Gurudev is par bhi thoda prakash dalenege to sab logon ki ankhen ki jo apni beti ko de raha hai to mujhe to lagta hai ki jitni uski samarth hogi utha nahi rakhega jaisa hamne dekha hai kyonki kahani to paida hue hain parivaar mein hi dekha hai ki jitni apni samarth hoti hai aap maa aur parivaar wo karaj lekar bhi chahta hai bhale maingo ya en maingo kya achhche se accha

apni beti ka byah karen bartiya ka swagat karen par jab varg paksh ke yah baat rakh dete hain itne lakh ya itne tosh mamta bhare parivaar mein vishmata paida ho jati isse accha hai beti paida nahi hoti yah jo aaj garbhvati aae hamare bahut bade aap ki pravriti baadh rahi hai mata bahno mein bhi samaj mein bhi to uska kahani na kahani kafi dost is dahej pratham par hai kyonki hamne dekha hai ki ganv ke jaise kisan aadmi hai beti ko pataya likhiya sundar pusht kiya karen buddhi bhrasht ho gayi dahej pratham ke bhens accha kuch aise ankhen neembua ghat ganga ji ke kinare bhramn karte phatehpur jile mein to aise santo ke paas to ate rahte na darshan vasna arth to ek grast brahmin parivaar ke ate the ab jo marg mein chal rahe hain to kabhi koi en koi baat to ho hi jati Bhagwati to apni beti ko le the to yahan sab jali hui thi aise pure aise itna chehra aise aur sundar is bachchhe ko kya ho gaya unka maharaj iska byah kiya tha jitne hamare samarth jitna unhone manga tha utna dahej diya tha par

wo log susheel bachchi thi jab bata rahe the tab uske aansu chal rahe the use bachchi ke to bole phir bhi unhone maang ki hamne phir bhi dobara jo kam se bana diya bole tivara hamari bachchi ko charpai mein bandhkar ke aaj laga di charpai mein bandhkar aur bhagwan ki leela ki rassi ka wo hissa pehle tuta jo aur takat laga ko uthne par khula jae wo pehle jal jal rahi thi wo bhi bhag aur seedeeo se chadh ke unke chacha ke ghar mein kud gaye chhappar hote na angan mein chhappar ke sare niche jalti unhen dekha to kambal aaj se

dhaka aur unke paas bandook thi ki ab nahi ab meri beti ho gayi unhen ke parivaar agar kisi ne dimaag ko tait gali mar denge wo bole hamen suchna di gayi ham apni beti ko le ab bolo ye raksha hai ya manushya hai wah beti zindagi ab uske antratma mein jo unke prati bhav aayega wah use jail nahi payenge chahe jitna to kai tarah se dahej pratham se bahut hani hai aur hamen lagta hai ki agar tumhen sundar susheel kanya mil jae aur usse tumhari vansh parampara desh bhakti bhagwat bhakti buddhiman putr paida

ho wo accha ya usko is tarah se parivaar ko klesh dena use bachchi ko klesh dena ya wah parivaar wala bachchi jiske hai wah sone par majbur ho jae isse to accha hai ki hamare bachchhe na hoti to dahej pratham to bahut hi kahani kisi bhi tarah labhdayak nahi hai kahani bhi kisi aur jo is tarah se dahej liya jaega likh lo use parivaar ki janch kar lena kuch varsho ke baad use parivaar mein aisa khanyantra aur sukh nahi hoga shanti sukh nahi aaj tak kabhi koi sukhi nahi hua hai ye pakki baat hai aur sabse prarthna hai ki betikon ki bhavna mein unka garv ki hatya kar dena isliye samjh lo aapke paas koi prayashchit nahi is paap se hate ka are aap padhne likhne do aajkal bahut hamare matlab padhai likhi to kahani na kahani wo kuch na kuch karenge apne hisaab se wah jine layak buddhi bhagwan sabko de dete hain hamne to dikhayee de raha hai ki bachchiyon badi unnati mein ja rahe hain to hamara durbhagya hai aisa mata-pita ko nahi aur kai jagah hamne dekha jahan budhe mata-pita ko koi sahyog nahi deta to

hamne dekha bachchiyon hi sahab deti hai kabhi ladkon ko kidney dete hue nahi dekha apne aap ko jahan sunne ko aata hai to beti kidney deti nazar ai hai ladke kar hain hissa bant liye ab ek-ek roti dene ke liye pehle wo bhag ke bhi jab mata-pita beti ke paas wahi dalal karti kyonki karunami hai na mantr shuru hriday mein virajman na accha beti nahi hogi to beta asman se paida ho jaega kya karod ka ghar ho aur ek stri sharir na ho use ghar mein kisi kam ka ghar nahi hai aur mehnat karke ate ho

bhale ₹200 let ho aur devi shakti ke hath mein rakh do tumhari pure parivaar ka poshan karegi kisi ko bhookh nahi rahne degi sabko vani ke dwara cheshtaon ke dwara prashn ye mantr shakti hai iske saath aisi bhavna karna ki tumhare keval chinh ka hi to fark hua tumhari santan purush chandra se yukt hui to tum itne mahan ho gaye ki aap gali de rahe ho aap usko kasht de rahe ho aap paise le rahe ho wo apne pure jeevan ko tumhare ko samarpit ki hai yah bhari dandniy aparadh yahan dada agar nahi mila na to tayyar raho phir bhagwan ke shasan se phir kisi ki kisi ko bchane ka ches nahi milta dinkar kal rup mein bhrata bahut-bahut savdhaan ye to bahut accha prashn aapne kiya hai kyonki samaj ke liye bahut sudhar jisne apni bachchi hamen de di apna sarvasv de diya mano ab usse hamen mangne ki jarur nahi hai aur bhagwan jab aap nahi aisa dabaw daloge to dene wala wo hai wo aisa kuch dega ek ghar mein unko alag kar diya kyonki unhone dahej nahi diya tha garib parivaar the to ab use ladke

ne raji hokar byah kiya kyonki kuch ladke aise buddhiman hote hain ki agar hamara bhav ban raha hai hamare anukul pad raha hai to ham dhan lekar kya karenge par mata pita ka bhav dhan ke prati dhatu usko alag kar diya ek camera keval diya phir itna desh bada parivaar ka usko jahr de diya aur wo viksit hoga mara to nahi par pagal ho gaya ab uski ladki ki dasha sab kuch parivaar walon ne liya ek camera de diya ek do bigha jo kheti wo karne layak nahi kyonki rod mein baitha ab jo uski santane hui

thi aaj aisi hait unchi diparment mein hai ki ganv par makan bana hua hai wo jab ate hain na to gadiyon se ate hain jinke khane ka neta dharm se chale na to aaj pita hoon jo pagal pita hai na aise god mein rakh rahe hain bachchhe unki seva mein aur jo maa gharo mein kam karke apne bachchon ko pataya na koi eyarphorsa mein hai koi ye phal se na ismen hai matlab kahani to phorsa mein hai aur itne vidvan hain ki jo acharya Maharshi Maharshi yogi ke uske acharya hain aur unmein padha rahe hain chhote-chhote bachchhe jo

the wo achhche bahut to bhagwan diya na dekho achchhi patiya de di accha aur wo jo ghar wale is ki sthiti par agar bhagwan denge na to aap mahan ban jaoge aur kisi bhi jeev ko satna phir wo tumhari sharanagat hui hai pani grahan tumne kya tumhare ghar mein aae kitne raaksasi swabhav ke hote hain ghar mein aae hue ek sharan mein aae hue ek kabutar ke liye mara shivir ne apne sharir ka mans chaddha diya aur wo kanya ai hai tumhare ghar mein apne mata-pita mankar apna bhav rakh karke to usko yah samjhna chahiye ki

bahut badi lakshmi hamare ghar ae gayi hai ab isse jo santan hogi kal parampara chalegi to yah dahej pratham to bilkul hi is par sarkari shasan bhi hona chahiye aur samajik khud hamari aisi sthiti hani chahiye ki hamen chahiye ki ham apne dhan se santusht rahe aapne kanya de diya bahut sundar baat hai ab hamara khud bhag gaya age kam karega hamen aapse nahi chahiye aur hamne dekha hai ki mata-pita aise baat alag hai koi dusht swabhav ka ho nahi koshish karte hain main kya de dan apni beti ko pakka ye pakka haan matlab jab beti paida hoti hai na Janak ji ko vida kar rahe hain koi bhi aisa pita nahi jiske hriday mein to wo kahe ko rakhega apne jo jitni samarth itna to de dega isliye mujhe lagta hai dahej nahi mangna chahiye dahej dene ke bhai se garb mein beti ki hatya nahi karni chahiye wo aeeti aaj ka samay dekho aaj ka samay aisa hai ki dekho hamare rashtr mein to beti rashtrapati hamare desh ke rashtrapati kaun hai matlab rashtr ke swamitwa ka jo pratham pad hai rashtrapati hai rashtrapati pad pehle naam to

hamen yaden dekho kitni sundar baat hamare rashtr ke pradhan pad par devi baithi hui hai to hamen chahiye ki ham apni putri ko padhaya likha hai susheel aaj ke vatavran ki gandagi se dur bache aur phir bhagwan hai ki wah apni samarth se ji sakte dhire dhire bhagwan bhi aisi unnati unki kar rahe hain maansikta ki achhche se haan mataji ke kai rup hain hamari fake jo rup hai na prachnd dand dene wala phir wo rup jab prerit kar dete na to phir nachni nach nach leti use parivaar ko nach deti hai phir hamari Bhagwati ki

badi samrit hai wah baith jaegi buddhi mein ki tum dekhna chahte ho is time kya samarth Puri ka pani ka jaenge kyonki devi shakti hai isliye naman to tumhare parivaar ka poshan aur mangal ho hamen lagta hai dahej pratham bahut hi hanikarak hai bahut hi hamare samaj ka ek aisa rog hai jo bahut purane se chala raha hai aur is rog se grasit hokar ke bahut log chhin-bhinn ho jaate hain udas ho jaate hain beti paksh ke liye unke hriday mein paida ho jati ki agar aaj beti na hoti to main aisa nahi bilkul dhairya purvak chalo bhagwan ne sabke bhagya ki rachna ki hai aur padh likh karke hamen lagta hai ki koi bhi koi bhi accha sa jeevan ji sakta hai bhej sakta hai nokri karo vyapar karo dekho mata maine bahut si jagah unnati ko prapt ho rahe aajkal to bachchhe padhte-padhte aise naukriyan karne lagta hain ki mata pita ki bhi seva karte hain aur jahan byah use paksh ko bhi santusht karne ki samarth nahi bachhiya mein aise paise kamane lagi hai par dahej lene wali bhavanon ka tyag kar dena chahiye haan sab naujawan bhai

samaj sudharak bano basant tyago Gandhi baten Gandhi adte jo hamare samaj mein phayl rahi ek dusre milkar ke ruko agar aap ruk aur ek mitra ko rock to dusre ko rokne ki samarth rakhna hai aise agar hamara ek mohalla sudhar gaya phir ganv sudhar jaega ek ganv sudhar gaya to ek nagar sudhar jae dhire-dhire ham log bhartvassi hain sauharda hi hamara swaroop hai ganv mein rahte hazaron log the par lagta tha ham sab ek hi ghar ke hain jo hamari vividhta bhavanon mein ye uchchata nichta ye sab bade chhote ye sab jo dhan

ko lekar ke janm ko kal ko lekar ke kai tarah is mansiktaen keval hain ham ek hi prabhu ke bachchhe hain agar ham achhche aacharan se chale to ham manushya jeevan bada anand mein sukh mein vitt accha ye hamare jawan bhaion ko hi jarur hai kyonki yahi hamare desh ke bhavishya hain ab 15 se lekar ke 35 tak ki avastha ke jitne en ye tuphani avastha hoti hai agar ismen Gandhi baten ae gayi ganda har ganda vasant to phir theek nahi hai haan achhche achhche samaj ka sangthan karo aur swayam achhche bano aur dusron ko accha hai ki marg par chalne ka sahyog do prerna do

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