aajkal bachchhe prem-sambandh mein dhokha milne par usse bahar nahi aa pate aise mein kya karen?

shri hit Radha keli kunj, Vrindavan mein pujya shri hit Premanand Govind sharan ji maharaj ke saath ekantik vartalaap. Sadhak apne jeevan aur sadhna ke prashn rakhte hain aur maharaj ji unka samadhan karte hain.

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maharaj ji yah prashn ham isliye pooch rahe hain ki aajkal yuva varg bahut isse grasit ho raha hai. Maharaj ji maharaj ji aapas mein prem sambandh ho jaata hai byah se pehle hi phir kya hota hai kuch samay baad ek dusre ki kamia pata lagti hai ya jaisa bhi hota hai to uske baad maharaj ji ek paksh dusre ko chhod deta hai bat ek ki asakti bahut ghaneebhut ho gayi hoti hai to phir maharaj ji usse nikal pana ek dusre ke prem se ek to nikal gaya ek wo pura jeevan maharaj ji na idhar ka rahta na dekho tasma shastram prmanam te kar vyvasthit samaj mein isiliye dharm guru hote hain aur dharm shastr hote hain ki hamko kaise chalna hai uska hamen gyan hona chahiye.

ham mitrata karna paap nahi samjhte. Lekin mitrata karke ganda aacharan karna paap hai. Ham kah rahe hain aap mitra ban jao aur phir apne mata-pita se milo aur donon ke ashirwad lo aur pani grahan sanskar kar lo. Byah kar lo. Aajeevan saath raho. Jab tak pani grahan na ho. Jab tak kanuni tum uski patni na ban jao. Pati patni ka sambandh na ho jae tab tak bachchon ko bahut savdhaan rahna chahiye aur aaj yah girlfriend boyfriend jo chala hai ye bahut hi bachchon ke liye hanikarak hai. Kai bachchhe susta kar lete hain.

kai bachchhe viksipt ho jaate hain. Depression mein pahunch jaate hain. Naya hriday hota hai. Ab khel khel mein ek dusre ko hriday de diya aur wah uska mahatva nahi samjhte. Wo ek se dusre breakup chala hai. Breakup ab yah hai kya? Yah hamare desh ki sanskriti hai. Nahi bhai, hamare shastr agyaa karte hain. Ye aparadh hai, ye paap hai. Ise nahi karna chahiye. Agar chuk ho gayi to phir pura jeevan barbad ho jaata hai. Bachchhe disturb ho jaate hain. Ye ye theek nahi hai. Dosti karo. Dosti ka mana nahi hai. Lekin aajeevan ki dosti karo.

kisi ko bhi agar pyar se sweekar karo to aajeevan nirvah ki socho. Yah nahi aaj isko kal usko aise karne se to aap logon ka charitrheen ho jaoge. Dekho ek angrezzi mein hamko sutra mila tha. Uska Hindi mein arth tha paisa gaya kuch nahi gaya. Mani loss nathing iz loss. Swasthya gaya to kuch gaya. Heltha iz loss samthing iz loss aur agar charit gaya to sab kuch gaya karrektar iz loss evreething iz loss aaj ulta hai ulta ye jo dosti hai hamen isse koi nafrat nahi hai. Isse koi hamen gila shikwa nahi.

pavitra dosti rakho. Dost wahi jo apne dost ko age badhave. Dost ko niche gira de. Dost ki bhavanon ko rad de. Dost ko kuda karkat kar de. Aisa nahi. Ye dosti bhi kya jo nirvah na kar pave. Wo dosti kya? Aur aajkal aise dost milna mushkil hai jo nirvah kare. Hai aisa nahi ham kahte ki nahi hai. Hai lekin wahi dosti achchhi hai jo aajeevan nirvah ho. Ye idhar-udhar ki baten ab is vishay mein ham kya bol sakte hain? Kyonki yah na pehle tha na is vishay ka koi prasang pehle tha. Aaj ke 40 varsh pehle girlfriend boyfriend tha hi nahi.

tha hi nahi. Skulon mein bachchhe bachchyan sab aise khel kud ke padhte the. Kahin ye gandi baten thi hi nahi. Aaj to 12 varsh 13 varsh ka bachchha gandi baat mein bada praveen hai. Mobile ke mobile guru hai. Usse sab seekh leta hai. To pehle mobile tha nahi. School mein sab saye saye bachchhe bachchyan padhte kabhi dosh drishti nahi hansi khel kaise kabhi koi dosh drishti nahi aajkal bachchon mein bahut malinta aati chali ja rahi hai ki hamare bharat ka bhavishya jo ye nai pidhi hai ismen vyasan aur vybhchar ye to bahut jor se badh rahe hain.

bada sankatpurna hai kyonki yahi hamare paddhikari baenge bachchhe. Yahi hamare nyayadhish baenge. Yahi emaelae baenge. Yahi sansad baenge. Yahi doctor master baenge bachchhe. Agar vyasan aur vybhchar se yukt hain to hamare samaj ko ye sukh nahi pahuncha payenge. Shoshan karenge. Agar vyasan aur vybhchar mukt hain to yahi hamare samaj ke ujjwal bhavishya samaj ko sukh pahunchayenge. To hamen lagta hai jab tak adhyatma se nahi juda jaata tab tak aadhunik padhai se hamen bacha nahi paegi. Hamen adhyatma se judna chahiye.

bhagwan ka naam jap karna chahiye. Thodi der satsang jarur sunna chahiye. Guru vani, santo ki vani jarur padhni chahiye jisse hamara charit pavitra ho. Charit hi sab kuch hai. Hamare desh mein charit ki puja hoti hai. Isliye ab iske vishay mein aap sudhna chahe to sudhar sakte hain. Baka dusri koi dawa nahi hai. Iski koi aushadhi nahi hai. Aap sudhna chahe to sudhar sakte hain. Prarthna hai sudhar jao. Nahi to aap hi pareshaan ho jaoge. Aap hi disturb ho jaoge. Koi pyar nahi karta. Pyar karne wale koi birla log hote hain.

pyar ka natak karke wo alag baten hain. Lekin pyar karne wala koi birla hota hai. Ab aapne dil de diya hriday samarpit kar diya. Kuch din saath rahe ab wo dusre phir ab halat kya uski hogi? Aisi sthiti mein bahar kaise nikla jae maharaj ji? Bhagwan ka aashray lekar bina bhagwan ke aashray se nahi. Bhagwan ka aashray lo. Sab bacha denge. Wo sab theek kar denge. Wo aapko accha dost mila denge. Aap chinta mat karo. Unki srishti mein kami nahi hai. Aap unse prarthna karo. He bhagwan mujhe mere anurup dost do to dost de denge.

dekho kardam ji ne bhagwan se tapasya karke prarthna ki mere anurup patni do. To aadi samrat maharaj Manu ki putri dehuti bhagwan ne byah karwaya jisse kapil bhagwan ka pradurbhav hua. To isliye hamen jo chahiye wo bhagwan se mange naam jap karen. Sahsa aisi gandi baton mein na utre nahi to hamara jeevan barbad ho jaega.

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